Mel Of Bacchus

What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?

For me, it’s dishonesty!

I am such an honest person and so lying is the number one trait I cannot work with in a friendship or relationship.

But in saying that, people who lie, usually lie for a reason and being the person I am, I like to understand why people do the things they do, what bought them to that place and for what reason are they lying.

I believe someone until that trust is broken and then I don’t trust easy again.

But if I see someone lying about someone or something else then that too is a red flag for me.

My word and my integrity is everything to me.

So someone else’s word and their integrity also means a lot to me.

Unfortunately over time I have come to realise that people just don’t have the same heart as me and that has gotten me hurt in the past.

But loyalty and honesty are the two most attractive traits to me in all relationships.

Do not lie to me!